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Free Wedding Ceremony Planner

Everything you need to plan and lead a meaningful, Spirit-filled wedding ceremony — from pre-marriage prep to the final recessional.

What's included

Pre-ceremony preparation checklist
Full ceremony order with time guides
Sample vows, pronouncement & opening words
10 curated Scripture suggestions
Notes pages for personalisation

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Pre-Ceremony Checklist

Meet with the couple at least twice before the wedding
Confirm date, time, venue and ceremony duration
Confirm marriage licence / legal requirements for your jurisdiction
Discuss and personalise the vows
Confirm processional and recessional music
Confirm who escorts family members and bridal party order
Confirm unity ceremony (candle, sand, communion) if applicable
Rehearsal conducted — date: _______________
Message / address prepared and reviewed
Marriage certificate prepared and ready to sign
Rings confirmed with ring bearer or best man
Order of service printed / distributed

Ceremony Order

#	Element	Est. Time
—	Prelude music (guests arrive)	15–20 min
—	Seating of families	5 min
1	Bridal party processional	3–5 min
2	Bride's processional	1–2 min
3	Opening welcome	2–3 min
4	Opening prayer	1–2 min
5	"Who gives this woman?"	1 min
6	Scripture reading	3–4 min
7	Message / address	8–12 min
8	Declaration of intent ("Do you…?")	2 min
9	Vows	3–4 min
10	Ring exchange	2 min
11	Unity ceremony (optional)	3–5 min
12	Pronouncement	1 min
13	The kiss & introduction of the couple	1 min
14	Recessional	2–3 min
15	Signing of register / certificate	5–10 min

Sample Words

Opening Welcome

"We are gathered here today in the presence of God and these witnesses to celebrate one of life's greatest moments — the joining of _____ and _____ in holy matrimony. Marriage is God's design; a covenant made not only between two people, but before the One who is love itself."

Pronouncement

"By the authority vested in me, and in the presence of God and these witnesses, I now pronounce you husband and wife. What God has joined together, let no one separate."

Declaration of Intent

"_____, do you take _____ to be your lawfully wedded wife / husband — to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do you part? If so, say: I do."

Scripture Suggestions

Genesis 2:24"That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh."

1 Corinthians 13:4–8The love chapter — classic choice for weddings.

Ruth 1:16–17"Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay..."

Ephesians 5:25–33Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church.

Colossians 3:12–17"Above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."

Song of Solomon 8:6–7"Place me like a seal over your heart... love is as strong as death."

John 15:12"Love one another as I have loved you."

Ecclesiastes 4:9–12"Two are better than one... a cord of three strands is not quickly broken."

Message Notes

Title / Theme

Personalisation Notes

Tip: Ask the couple to share one story about the moment they knew they wanted to marry each other. Working a personalised story into your message is always more powerful than generic content.

Personal details / couple's story